.First off, be grateful that you feel so much. I'm so grateful that I feel so much"
I'm grateful because I know that I never cheat love. It's real for me every fucking time. It's no allusion. It's not a trick. It's not a distraction. It's pure and authentic. The pain I feel afterward reminds me of this truth. Whether they're experiencing this with me or not, I know the pain and hurt is a reminder of how much that person meant to me and how
much that experience meant to me
So if you're alone in the pain of a breakup
you should feel sorry for that person because they either never felt the realness of the love you felt for them, or they're distracting themselves from the pain of losing you. While you're standing there in the throngs of your hurt, letting it wash over you, appreciating the pain you feel right now because you know that the pain you feel after love is directly proportional to the degree of love you felt during the relationship".
It's not easy to watch your ex play house with someone else while your wounds are still so fresh from the breakup. It makes you want to hate them for so easily forgetting about your time together and being able to let go of you so quickly.
Take comfort in knowing that by the breakup being painful and hard for you, you will be sure to give yourself the appropriate time of introspection to decompress and reinvest in yourself. Time that will enable you to be stronger for yourself, but also stronger for the next person who you deem worthy of putting your heart on the line for.
Trust that when you meet the right person not only will they not be able to move on from you quickly, but they will
never let you go in the first place".
עריכה (24/6 14:03):
קשה לי להרפות מהמחשבה עליך איתה. המילים שאמרת לי, "לנצח", ואיך אתה מבטיח אותן עכשיו לבחורה אחרת.
מקווה שלפחות איתה תעמוד מאחורי המילים ותדאג ליישם אותן יום יום ולהראות לה את זה כל הזמן.
אירוני וחסר היגיון שנפרדת ממני כי הרגשת שאתה מפסיד את החברים והמשפחה כשאתה איתי,
ושעכשיו זה עדיין ככה בגללה אבל פתאום זה כבר לא מזיז לך.
לא יכולת פשוט לומר לי שאתה כבר לא מרגיש אותו דבר?
תמיד אמרתי לך שהעיקר להיות כנים ואמיתיים אחד עם השני והסכמת.
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כינוי:
feel again